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Frequently Asked Questions

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The purpose of this page is to answer all your questions in advance so that you can make a informed decision on how to continue. The main questions should already be answered on this page. I have compiled a list of further questions that are asked repeatedly, or ones that I simply find interesting and funny, or have given me food for thought. If you have more questions, feel free to ask them using the contact form below.    

  • Why do you call yourself DOM and not Master?
    As a sigma male, I find that the title "DOM" resonates more with my personality and approach to BDSM than "Master." While both roles hold authority within the dynamic, I appreciate the flexibility and fluidity that comes with being a "DOM." Unlike the more structured and rule-driven nature of a "Master," as a "DOM," I prioritize peace, harmony, and deep emotional connection with my subs. For individuals who prefer the role of a DOM, there is often a preference for a more casual and relaxed dynamic, where creativity and expressiveness are encouraged. This resonates with me as I value intuitive communication and non-verbal signals to establish authority and connection with my submissives. While the role of a "Master" may involve more structure and formality, as a "DOM," I enjoy the freedom to lead by example rather than through strict rules. I find that my approach to BDSM is more intuitive and fluid, prioritizing emotional connection and understanding over rigid protocols. Ultimately, what matters most is finding the dynamic that works best for each individual. Whether you resonate more with the structured nature of a Master or the intuitive fluidity of a DOM, the key is to prioritize mutual understanding, trust, and fulfillment in the BDSM dynamic.
  • Your sales processes online seem to be very well and professionally organized. Why couldn't it be more personal? Don’t you miss the romantic and excitement of hook-ups?
    My sales process is deliberately crafted to counter the common phenomenon of "approach avoidance" in the BDSM community. Having encountered instances where individuals engage in mind games but fail to follow through with real commitments, I've implemented a policy where participation only begins after payment is received. This ensures accountability and commitment from both parties, as demonstrated by the act of putting a reasonable amount of money on the table. It's essential to understand that my subs book a session, not me, and this approach underscores the seriousness and dedication required for a fulfilling experience. With around 10 hours of preparation invested in each session, including safety and risk assessments, I prioritize creating a secure and enriching environment for all involved. In my approach to sales processes and client interactions, I intentionally focus on creating meaningful connections. While some may seek the excitement of hook-ups, I prioritize a deeper level of exploration and intimacy. This aligns with my ethos, aimed at fostering genuine connections and personal growth. Instead of fleeting thrills, my business guides individuals through a journey of self-discovery and development. I provide a safe space for those seeking profound experiences, rather than superficial encounters. My sales processes may not follow traditional norms, but they are tailored to support the unique goals and values of our clients. I just prioritize deeper exploration and intimacy over hook-up excitement. The selective sales process and extensive prior exchange are at the core of my Experience Session methodology that I developed based on my previous leadership experience. There is no way possible that a responsible, yet respectful selective process and creation of calmely and safe atmosphere would harm the intention to focus on fostering meaningful relationships built on trust, respect, and mutual understanding. I strive to create a comfortable environment for clients in advance so there are no obstacles for them to explore their desires. Understand and respecting each individual's comfort levels and preferences, while I myself have either musts nor limits in BDSM, I enjoy the interplay primarily, ensure Experience Sessions as personalized and fulfilling experiences for all.
  • What unique qualifications and experience does DOM Robert Berlin bring to the table?
    As a professional Dominus, my experience, qualifications, and diverse background allow me to offer transformative perspectives and actionable advice in a wide range of topics, including personal development, leadership, and social change. I hold a Master's degree in international media and culture management, currently studying anti-corruption, and have over 20 years of experience in international banking and insurance, NGO management, civil service, and activism for democratic and civil liberties. My expertise in political science, law, change management, and human resource management has equipped me with practical insights and strategies to deliver sessions of exceptional quality. As an openly gay political candidate and public figure, I have learned to ignore perceptions that do not align with my reality. Through my work, I try to inspire and empower my audience. With my unique position, I offer transformative perspectives on various topics, obviously making my sex-positive content inspiring and actionable for those who consume it. And I must say, that the positive feedback I received in my first 6 months as Professional DOM exceeded the positive feedback I personally gained in the 20 years of social-political activism. I truly appreciate this amazing exchange and joy together with my followers and fans.
  • What's your relationship status?
    I was in a 14-year marriage, but my husband and I divorced in 2022. In 2023, I had a beautiful but unfortunately short-lived crush. I am currently single again and intend to keep it that way for a while. I've been in a short-term relationship for more than 19 years, and I believe it's important to take a break. So, I'm not too old to take some time for myself.
  • Can you explain how a DRB Experience Session is actually organized?
    I'd like to attach here an illustration about the particular steps of my DRB ES.
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